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long black dress coat Winter coat, Long wool coat, Black coat dress, flare coat, buttoned jacket, wool overcoat (Y2198) L(US 14) / Orange* A long long cashmere and wool coat.* With a flare hem, like a long dress.* Fully lined and two pockets.* Material: out shell 50% wool, 50% Cashmere; lining 100% polyester * Care: dry clean only, dont forget to put a handmade essential oil soap in closet to keep away worm in summer * Measurements:* Pls note we will add 4 around take room on bust to let you wear sweater underneath, we make according to US sizing instead of Chinese sizing , so just
* A long long cashmere and wool coat.* With a flare hem, like a long dress.
* Fully lined and two pockets.
* Material: out shell - 50% wool, 50% Cashmere; lining - 100% polyester
* Care: dry clean only, don’t forget to put a handmade essential oil soap in closet to keep away worm in summer
* Measurements:*
Pls note we will add 4” around take/room on bust to let you wear sweater underneath, we make according to US sizing instead of Chinese sizing , so just pick your usual size.
Let us know your usual size in your country and your overall height.
If you have some specific request or special characters such as broad shoulder, long arms, long waist, etc you think we need pay attention to when making, do let me know.
Shop sizing chart FYI ( made according to US sizing. actual body figures, NOT laying flat clothes measurements)
SIZE XS (US 2, UK 6, Italian 36, French 34, German 32, Japan 3)
Bust: fits bust around 33.5” / 85cm
Waist: fits waist around 26” / 66cm
Hips: fits hips around 36” / 91cm
SIZE S (US 6, UK 10, Italian 40, French 38, German 36, Japan 7)
Bust: fits bust around 35.5” / 90cm
Waist: fits waist around 28”/ 71cm
Hips: fits hips around 38”/ 97cm
SIZE M (US 10, UK 14, Italian 44, French 42, German 40, Japan 11)
Bust: fits bust around 37.5” / 95cm
Waist: fits waist around 30”/ 76cm
Hips: fits hips around 40”/ 102cm
SIZE L (US 14, UK 18, Italian 48, French 46, German 44, Japan 15)
Bust: fits bust around 40.5”/ 103cm
Waist: fits waist around 33”/ 84cm
Hips: fits hips around 43”/ 109cm
SIZE XL (US 18, UK 22, Italian 52, French 50, German 48, Japan 22)
Bust: fits bust around 43.5”/ 110cm
Waist: fits waist around 36”/ 91cm
Hips: fits hips around 46”/ 117cm
SIZE XXL or 175cm+ takes 10Euro to cover extra fabric, labour and shipping. Pls contact us before making.
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★★★★★ 5
Superb!
Format: Paperback
This was my first read on Bowen Family Systems. I was pleasantly surprised at the value and relevance of the ideas. For example, that all intimate relationships produce some anxiety in the partners! We cope with that anxiety using behaviors which may cause excessive 'distancing' from our loved one.(Something of a push-pull going on here). Another simple idea is that keeping some type, any type, of connection (ie. avoiding a 'cut off') with members of our family of origin (brother, sister, parent, child) is vital to having good relationships with our chosen loved ones. I don't recall ever hearing that idea before. Unlike many psychological revelations, this one is fairly simple to assess in our own lives - just look at your family of origin and see what kind of relationships you have! Gilbert is realistic that big changes in ourselves are not likely, but even incremental small steps forward can have profound impact on our relationships. Gilbert is a very good writer, with occasional (rare?) understated humor, which makes the material easy to access for anyone interested enough to try. Highly recommended.
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Reviewed in the United States on March 8, 2008
★★★★★ 4
Loaded with Information
Format: Paperback
Roberta Gilbert's overview of Murray Bowen's Family Systems Theory is a thorough introduction on how we build individuality through constant interaction. Although it takes a few chapters to understand the terminology ("anxiety", "differentiation", etc.), Gilbert pieces together the general concepts of Bowen's theory through analytical study and real world interpretation. The idea of triangulating and the importance of original family relationships stand out to me as the overwhelmingly important activities which many people don't think twice about. This isn't to discount other aspects of relationships- such as Overfunctioning/underfunctioning, conflict, distance, and cutoff- but these certainly stand out due to the attention Gilbert gives to them.
The one point that I disagree with (although Bowen would say I am in denial) is the urge to put yourself on a different emotional in any and all connections. I understand the benefits to this, but the idea that I would detach and remain coolly above all interactions between those closest to me strikes me as depressing. I feel differentiation and togetherness (which he calls "fusion") do not have to be mutually exclusive. This critique is grounded in pure opinion. My critique from an analytical perspective centers on her ignorance, which could even be called contempt, of love in a relationship. Her rudimentary overview of love in relationships places it neatly in a box next to cutoff, triangulating, and other day-to-day activities. I don't see myself as a hopeless romantic, but the unique attributes of love is noted near unanimously. Viktor Frankl, a noted psychologist himself, wrote about it in his excellent book "Man's Search for Meaning".
Nevertheless, I recommend Extraordinary Relationships for those who really want to dig into ways of improving themselves and the relationships around them. Although the concepts might be a little narrow, the general Bowen Family Theory idea should not be ignored.
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Reviewed in the United States on October 1, 2012
★★★★★ 5
It was easy to read
Format: Paperback
This book is written so I can refer back to it from time to time. It was easy to read, not a lot of jargon. I am really enjoying reading this book, Extraordinary Relationships: A New Way of Thinking About Human Interactions by Roberta M. Gilbert, M.D. It kept my interest. It is only 168 pages, plus a few more pages that has reading notes, epilogue, a glossary, and of course the index. The book about developing yourself so that you can further develop your relationships. kudo to the author and her mentor.
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Reviewed in the United States on August 12, 2014
★★★★★ 5
Gilbert conveys the principles of BFST in easily understood and engaging ways
Format: Paperback
Roberta Gilbert ' s book is simply transformative. Be forewarned, if you seriously apply Gilbert's principles from Bowen family systems theory your life will never be the same. Gilbert conveys the principles of BFST in easily understood and engaging ways. Your life and your relationships with others will become extraordinary as you become more emotional mature in your interactions with others. In short, an extraordinary book!
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Reviewed in the United States on January 5, 2015
★★★★★ 3
A bit repetitive
Format: Paperback
The Family Systems approach makes a great deal of sense and is very helpful. But this book seems to be somewhat formulaic - every case looks the same.
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Reviewed in the United States on September 13, 2013